Identifying Ourselves Through Our Relationships: A Communication Skills Tip

As a journal writer, I have learned a lot about myself over the years. I've explored everything from romance, to nature, career, culture, family and friends. One thing that all these things have in common is they are about relationships and how I identify myself within these many environments. I've often wondered if personality is something that belongs to our spirit more than our physical body and mind (see Michael Newton's Journey of Souls.) I am sure, however, that our identity is formed through our family, schooling, friends and all of our experiences. It turns out that we use our interpersonal comunication to not only further identify who we are but also to help us understand who others are. When I look in the mirror and see myself, it can be easy to define myself precisely as I desire. But, when I look into another person's eyes, the hiding is much harder to do. I do like to face life head on. I do prefer to say-it-like-it-is, and I find that my expectations of others are simple: live up to your full and true potential and communicate in honest and fair ways with those around you. It's not always easy to do, but we get so caught up in our ego that we can create feelings of emptiness and lonliness that are not necessary. That is why I strive to communicate well with the people I love. I may not be a saint, but sometimes I sure do feel heaven sent. To be added to Lanartco's Communication Performance Tip of the Week, please connect to this link or send your email address to info@lanartco.com.