Speak Up Young Man

Teenagers have it rough. They feel obligated to please their parents, their teachers, their friends, and they get caught up in the trends of the moment. It is easy for them to squeeze themselves into corners without realizing they are acting completely against their will. Here is the funny thing: I have to admit that there are still times when I feel like one of those teenagers. I think I'm communicating my needs. I suppose I'm clear about my opposing point of view. But like teenagers, I think there are clearly moments when I prefer to let things slide or put off my communication "for another time." Is easy always the way to go? Is feeling safe the way to fulfilling interpersonal relationships? I know that speaking my mind in a way that takes others into account remains important to me. But, I also recognize how important it is to gather up courage speak up. To be added to Lanartco's Communication Performance Tip of the Week, please connect to this link or send your email address to info@lanartco.com.